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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Scanlan writes....
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  “I feel as if God is preparing them to tell the world, ‘Change really is possible.’  
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...but he also states in the same article&#8230;
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“There are times, as Christians, we claim we have been set free from our temptations. But while I have been delivered, it is still something I struggle with,” Auvenshine said.
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So while Mr. Auvenshine may have learned to &#8220;control&#8221; his feelings of same sex attraction he has not apparently changed from gay to straight.&nbsp; 
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So what &#8220;change&#8221; is EXACTLY possible?
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 13:11:23 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this article.&nbsp; My family and I are struggling with this same issue and very similar circumstances.&nbsp; Are there any other articles or help you can direct us to, this seems to be a very needed area that seems to have limited resources.
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 13:46:21 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Valdes,
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Do you still struggle with pride or lying even if you are saved? We are all struggling against the sin nature. God&#8217;s transformation occurs on a moment to moment basis and is never fully realized until we join Him in Glory.
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 08:48:18 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Jesus still defines sin as lack of love (Matthew 22:36-40).&nbsp; What is unloving about a couple in a homosexual love relationships?&nbsp; Neither is victim, neither is unloved.&nbsp; Where is the hurt?&nbsp; Who is the victim being sinned against?&nbsp; The Gospel writers and prophets do not mention homosexuality because it is not a sin.&nbsp; The King James Version comes closest to a correct translation of two condemning nouns used in Leviticus 18:22 — &#8220;sexual immorality&#8221;.&nbsp; That is not necessarily homosexuality.&nbsp; ("Homosexual" was coined about 1865, so any translation using a form of that word is a lie that needs to be emended.&nbsp; In 1946 it premiered in an English Bible.)  If God didn&#8217;t want men (or women?)  to have sex with other men,  He would have said &#8220;Man shall not lie with man PERIOD That whole &#8220;...as with a woman&#8221; thing condemns straight men (prisoners) pretending to make it with a woman.&nbsp; Gay men know nothing about sex with women.
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 10:18:04 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Conwell apparently gives the gospels greater authority than other books in the Bible. Those who take the Bible seriously and trust its&#8217; authority recognize that all scripture is inspired - and authoritative. Secondly, Jesus made it very clear what God&#8217;s creative intent is when he challenged his listeners to go back to the beginning - that beginning where God created a man and a woman and instituted marriage. Thirdly, since arguments from silence are being proposed, I would point out that no where in the entirety of scripture are homosexual acts ever spoken of affirmatively.
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 20:50:37 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>What does the Bible say about Sodom and Gomorrah?&nbsp; I believe that God stated clearly that there was horrible sexual sin going on and that He would have to destroy the whole city. That would include the sin of sodomy (thus the name).&nbsp; If God truly approved of a homosexual relationship, then why are there no examples of any same sex couples in the Bible?
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I&#8217;d like to hear from Mr. Cromwell on this subject.
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 22:38:44 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Dan,
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You ask, &#8220;So what “change” is EXACTLY possible?&#8221;
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I&#8217;m of the opinion that sexuality is in no special category of human preference&#8212;in other words, like everything else, it&#8217;s the result of a complex mix of predisposition, personal experience and social factors. 
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So, I have no problem believing that God and affect change in this person&#8217;s life.
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HOWEVER, that&#8217;s not so say it&#8217;s easy!&nbsp; We&#8217;ve seen enough supposedly &#8220;changed&#8221; homosexuals going back to know that. 
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So, while I can believe that homosexuals can &#8220;go straight&#8221; (so to speak) I am concerned as to why.&nbsp; If a gay person honestly concludes that this God&#8217;s will for them&#8212;that&#8217;s fime.&nbsp;  However, I think a lot of people put pressure on gays to change out of bigotry or prejudice against homosexuals. That&#8217;s not fine.
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Before any gay person decided to try changing, I&#8217;d suggest they&#8217;d get some spiritual direction  from those who honestly interpret scripture differently.
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 23:40:40 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Fred, it sounds like you have convinced yourself that homosexuality is not a sin. I think that we all, at times, try to make the Bible say what we want it to say, rather than considering what God is really saying to us through His word. 
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I am not a Hebrew scholar so I can&#8217;t comment about the original text of Lev. 18:22. My version says &#8220;You are not to sleep with a man as with a woman; it is detestable.&#8221; The next verse prohibits other forms of &#8220;sexual intercourse.&#8221; To me, scripture is clear that homosexuality is not part of God&#8217;s plan for us.
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 02:44:23 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Dear Katie:&nbsp; 
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Leviticus 20:13
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NLT: (New Living Translation): &#8220;The penalty for homosexual acts is death to both parties. They have committed a detestable act, and are guilty of a capital offense.&#8221;
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Now I am not a Hebrew scholar either but that&#8217;s what Leviticus has to say on the matter.&nbsp; 
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Is Scripture clear to you that we gay people are to be punished with our very lives for finding love and companionship in the arms of someone of the same gender?&nbsp; 
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Who is to carry out said capital punishment, the state, the Church, or mob rule?&nbsp; This is what happens to gays in Iraq, Iran and Egypt.&nbsp; This is America.&nbsp; Gays are equally free.
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I think it&#8217;s time for reasonable people to re-examine the legalism and literalism of the Bible.&nbsp; 
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You are welcome to believe what you want, but public policy should not be influenced by this kind of homophobic inflammatory rhetoric.
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 10:12:02 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Dan,
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I must have missed the part where Katie discussed retribution for homosexual acts. As I read her post it was simply about whether the Scripture was clear about homosexual acts being a sin. 
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Every reference makes that clear.
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Since Israel was at that time a theocracy and the United States is a democracy - or more accurately a republic - this argument makes no sense. Comparing the U.S. to fanatically Islamic regimes is somewhat disingenuous.
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I&#8217;ve been involved in ministry to those wanting out of homosexuality for over 14 years. I&#8217;ve never heard anyone - certainly no reasonable person - even suggest such a thing.
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 10:34:18 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dan,
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The passage in Leviticus as well as other passages in the Bible provide proof (for me, at least) that God does not intend for human beings to participate in homosexuality. So, a person who is interested in living life the way God intends will seek to obey His will, despite the struggles or challenges this may present. 
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Either you abide by His word or you don&#8217;t. If you choose not to (as you have in this area of your life) don&#8217;t expect others who see it differently to applaud or re-interpret the Bible to fit your lifestyle.
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 14:25:23 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Dear Mr. Stith, 
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Katie didn&#8217;t discuss retribution, Leviticus does.&nbsp; 
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It&#8217;s strange how some in the church like to point out Leviticus as foundational for their belief that homosexuality is immoral,however, they do not hold to the passage that I quote.&nbsp; 
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Katie suggests that I am the one reinterpreting the Bible for my own ends, however I am the one quoting the Bible too.&nbsp; So is one passage more valid that the other.&nbsp; It&#8217;s the same book after all.
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The Bible says....
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Leviticus 20:13
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NLT: (New Living Translation): “The penalty for homosexual acts is death to both parties. They have committed a detestable act, and are guilty of a capital offense.” 
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Those are not my words.
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 07:48:25 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Stith says..
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&#8220;Since Israel was at that time a theocracy and the United States is a democracy - or more accurately a republic - this argument makes no sense.&#8221; in reference to Leviticus 20:13, so does that mean that since we are a different nation at a different time that some Biblical TRUTH is temporal? 
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I thought the argument went that ALL Biblical TRUTH is eternal.&nbsp; That the Bible is the literal word of God.
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When did it stop being true?&nbsp; How can we know if some parts are true and some stop being true?&nbsp; 
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I thought the argument was that what God set up in Adam and Eve was the single and only model for humanity, the family and sexuality.&nbsp; 
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So if Genesis is true, why is Leviticus only partially true?&nbsp; Does our government conform to the word or does the WORD conform to democracy?
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 07:56:43 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Adam and Eve are indeed the single and only model for humanity, the family and sexuality.
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If you put all the gays on one island and all the lesbians on another, in less than 100 years the planet would no longer be occupied with any human beings.
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Case closed!
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2008 12:45:03 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Dear Terry Kay,
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If you put all the gays on one island and all the lesbians on another island....in less than 100 years you would have more gays and lesbians born from the general population.&nbsp; 
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Where in the world do you think we come from in the first place?
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2008 14:41:31 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>To Bob Stith, S. Miller,Katie and others who didn&#8217;t read my basic post): Jesus&#8217; words are supreme (Matthew 22:36-40)and a loving Gay relationship is not sinful. (see David and Jonathan 1 Samuel 18:1-3 and 20:30-41) Who&#8217;s the victim being hurt? Sodom and Gomorrah was attempted homosexual rape - not loving. See their record of un-love in Ezekiel 16:48-50.
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Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 have &#8220;...as with a woman&#8221;. Gay men don&#8217;t know sex with women.
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 11:34:08 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>One thing some folks never seem to mention is that Lot offered up his two daughters for rape to the angry mob if they would only accept them. 
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Now if the whole story of Sodom and Gomorrah is about how bad homosexuality is, what does that further say about the value of women vs. men, rape of women, paternal protection vs. protecting unknown visitors to our home and perhaps most importantly self sacrifice.
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 09:50:34 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Straight men (ALL men homosexual?) raping angels? If Gay, where did the &#8220;young&#8221; come from? Please! And why offer Gay men a couple females for sex? Please! Get straight on Sodom and Gomorrah - Ezekiel 16:48-50. Realize that Jesus still defines sin as lack of love (Matthew 22:36-40).&nbsp; Those concerned about the sanctity of marriage should insist on outlawing adultery, divorce and abortion.&nbsp; All are sinful because they have an unloved victim.&nbsp; Marriage must be for love, not pregnancy.
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 11:43:53 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Fred, 
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Jesus&#8217; definition of love in Matthew 22 has absolutely nothing to do with sexual activity. There is nothing in the Bible to support the idea that David and Jonathan had a homosexual relationship. In John 15:13 Jesus says &#8220;greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.&#8221; He is not talking here about &#8220;eros&#8221; (Greek for sexual love) but agape (Greek for a self-sacrificing kind of love). You cannot twist Jesus&#8217; command to love one another to mean that homosexual activity is permissible in the Bible.
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 08:08:13 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Dear Pat,
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You might find secular resources helpful at PFLAG (parents and friends of lesbians and gays) pflag.org or if you would like to hear an alternate Baptist point of view check out the affirming baptist ministry of rainbowbaptists.org.
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You may also find the United Church of Christ or some United Methodist Churches perspectives helpful in your discernment.&nbsp; 
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There are lots of Christ centered resources out there besides those who would have one believe that being gay equals broken spiritually or less than the plan God has for our lives.
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dan valdes
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:09:29 CST</pubDate>
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      	<description><![CDATA[<p>Katie, Matthew 22:40 says &#8220;ALL THE LAW and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.&#8221; I think that might cover sexual activity laws. An unloving act is neglecting to tell another sinner what Jesus did on the cross for them. Two people in a loving relationship are not sinning (per se) unless there is some sort of victimization. Jesus&#8217; words in Matthew 22:36-40 presumes that one knows what love is and what it is not.
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